Expand your pleasure with your partner!
A 6-week online course for women who have sex with men
Deepen your relationship with men and understand male sexuality
In this course, you'll learn:
~ Why men behave the way they do
~ What you can do to connect more with your partner
~ How you can help your partner open up
~ How you can encourage him to be more vulnerable
~ How you can help him be a better lover
~ How you two can ultimately experience more pleasure together
"Ladies, men are easy!"
You may have heard this statement from your friends, your favourite TV shows and movies, or from one of the many online magazine websites. In fact, contrary to popular opinion, men aren't easy or simple.
I'm not here to deal in universalities. I want to offer you some important information about the messages we all receive regarding the way men are conditioned to behave, both in and out of the bedroom, as well as the myths about masculinity that these messages create.
I also want to offer you a collection of exercises, practices, activities and strategies to communicate better with your current or future sexual partner, boyfriend, husband or man in your life. These can all be added to your communication to help you expand your pleasure with your partner.
"We are so happy, content and in love. You were such a big part of that. Our sex life continues to flourish thanks to your techniques and skills. Honestly the best thing we have done for our relationship."
Anonymous, Australia
Understand Him
You'll learn where ideas about what it means to be a "real man" come from, how your partner struggles to deal with this pressure, and what you can do to support him express his healthy masculinity.
Feel Empowered
You'll learn ways in which you can claim your sexual pleasure and encourage him to do the same, leading to mutually satisfying sexual experiences, closing the orgasm gap.
Blow His Mind
You'll learn the fundamentals of male erotic anatomy and how to dramatically shift his relationship with sex, no longer treating it like a performance but approaching it with presence while prioritising pleasure.
Meet Your Guide, Cam Fraser.
Cam is a Certified Professional Sex Coach, Certified Sexologist, Registered Counselor, and Registered Tantric Yoga Teacher. His work integrates scientifically validated, medically accurate information about sexual health, with sacred sexuality teachings from the mystery traditions. As a coach, he helps men go beyond surface-level sex and into full-bodied, self-expressed, pleasure-oriented sexual experiences free of anxiety or shame.
"Doing your Man Myths course really led me to get a better understanding of men."
Anonymous, United Kingdom
Example Curriculum
- Week 1 Intention
- Men are Not Hairy, Misbehaving Women
- Revising the Language We Use (8:06)
- How Men are Portrayed in Mainstream Media (16:11)
- Understanding the "Act Like a Man" Box (18:05)
- Where Our Sex Education Comes From (16:15)
- Addressing Men's Sense of Entitlement (15:56)
- Living In Fantasyland (14:26)
- Questions
- Week 1 Summary
- Week 3 Intention
- We're liberated folks who are very comfortable with sex (9:09)
- Men's Sexual Desire is High and Unwavering (15:00)
- Men's Sexual Desire is Superficial (12:15)
- Men do the Desiring; They Don't Need to Feel Desirable Themselves (12:30)
- Rejection Doesn't Hurt; Men are Used to it/Must Expect it (10:31)
- Men Should Pedestalize Women (17:02)
- Questions
- Week 3 Summary
- Week 4 Intention
- All Touching is Sexual or Should Lead to Sex
- If a Man Gets an Erection it Means He is Aroused (8:14)
- Ejaculation and Orgasm are the Same Thing (16:30)
- Men Hate Foreplay and Don't Want to Cuddle After Sex (15:38)
- Pornography is Integral to Men's Sex Lives
- Older Men are Either Dirty or Non-Sexual
- Questions
- Week 4 Summary
- Week 5 Intention
- Communication and Vulnerability: Creating Safety for Men (11:03)
- Cultivating Curiosity and Exploring Pleasure Together (5:54)
- Introduction to the Wheel of Consent (14:01)
- Energetic Polarity: Masculine and Feminine
- Feminine Archetypes: Seductress, Mother, Queen (57:27)
- Relationships: Attachment Styles and Love Languages (10:05)
- Dating and Attracting Men (15:19)
- Questions
- Week 5 Summary
- Week 6 Intention
- Male Anatomy of Arousal (9:33)
- Pleasure Mapping and Non-Demand Pleasuring (15:29)
- Erectile Dysfunction and Soft Penis Pleasure (29:56)
- Foundations of Prostate Stimulation (37:13)
- Female Anatomy of Arousal and Sexual Compatibility
- Spontaneity: Creativity and Flexibility (8:10)
- Introducing Novelty and Toys (6:18)
- Questions
- Week 6 Summary